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Originally Posted by Mighty Salami
I suppose my personal opinion is that relationships are personal and important, and I feel a lot of porn is cheapening that and making something which ought to be private and the most special part of a relationship public and very impersonal. We never know anything about the people we see in porn, which for me is a bit uncomfortable: I never like the distinction between loving someone and wanting to have sex with someone.
This is again, merely my explanation of why I'm uncomfortable with it, and the test is to watch it with someone else. Don't think I'm trying to tell you that you're evil or anything, I accept that the OP was right about the uncertainty of it all.
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To each his or her own. I look for a certain degree of openness in regards to sex in my partner, so it usually goes to say that we both can enjoy porn. To me, it just serves to get us both in the mood. Or to try new things. It's like when you are watching a movie with a sex scene or even just really attractive actors and you both get turned on. Porn is just the next level.
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Originally Posted by tore
When you're in a long term relationship/marriage with someone, you don't necessarily want to make love every time you have sex. To put it in crude terms, sometimes you both just want to fuck. To keep it interesting, I think people should have a relaxed relationship with sex and an open mind - as long as it's consensual and doesn't flirt with outright illegal stuff. As such, I think enjoying porn together can be a good way to mix/spice things up in a relationship. If both go into it willingly with an open mind and can laugh about it, then I don't see why it should hurt a couple.
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This.