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Originally Posted by Vanilla
I was the same for a long time. Now however, I am way more sure of myself and what I expect from a man. So I'm going to keep taking risks but also give people a chance to show who they are rather than me judging them off the bat.
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The thing that annoys me is, I am friends with LOADS of men, like actual loads. They invite me to partys which are for the 'boys' only. I'm stuck in a rut of being one of the lads because I'm obviously quite boyish. It's **** because it's those guys I like (ones I spend loads of time with) and they don't even look at me. It's just the creeps down the pub.
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Originally Posted by Odyshape
Haha thanks! Yeah we will see! Cheers 
@Aurora It seems like maybe you need to find more as to what you want and may need a new approach to do that. I don't know if this applies to you too but it certainly has for me with my relationships with people (not just romantic ones): Basically I find that a lot of times the problems that come up with relationships come up from putting up to much barriers and the frustration towards the other person and what seem to be faults can actually be a personal frustration in how they respond to the barriers you put up and not actual problems with them. I know some people are just horrible but at the same time I think there is a lot more good in people when you make an effort to be real with them than many people realize. Like if you think a guy is making you uncomfortable standing your ground can be really important because if you don't it can really misrepresent you and in the long run it makes you discredit your own feelings. Which sucks because you feelings DO matter but there is a lot of things telling us otherwise. Every day we repress our feelings because we feel they aren't valid but we forget that the fact that if it even came up in our head at all (an emotion or feeling) should be enough evidence that it matters.
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I think you could be right because I'm painfully secretive, not because I want to be, because I'm shy and embarassed. I know no ways of changing so I guess I'm ****ed
haha.
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Originally Posted by Burning Down
I will! This is actually the first Valentines Day where I've had an actual valentine, lol.
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Happy first Valentines day I guess then!
enjoy lady!