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Originally Posted by Thom Yorke
Oh, that way's good too; it's all in the same league really. Poking fun at the situation is just another way to be playful and I think it kind of bypasses the awkwardness of the whole thing.
I still think that most of the time she knows what you're up to though, regardless of how blunt you are. Then again, I could be way off base and be completely misjudging them. Wouldn't be the first time.
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Nah its understandable but its not always about how much she deep down knows what you want (presumably sex) but how well you are at veiling
that enough where she can know its there but have something to fall back on and bail out at any time if she feels uncomfortable. Essentially giving social freedom I guess is a good word to describe it (or at least the perception of social freedom).
In many ways I see this important for relationships outside of dating and sex as well. I think Osho once said that love is about the freedom that being with another person gives you and and you give them I definitely agree with that.