Thanks for the response, guys.
Another thing I think we should think about is how long humans live. To have one soulmate is a bit ridiculous, isn't it? This realization scares me. I don't think polyamorous won't work for me because I simply won't have time, but because I can feel that emotional and mentally I'm not ready to come to terms with something that has been ingrained in me for so long.
I realize that simply realizing this is a step to change the monotonous lifestyle I've led; however, what of morals and ethics? Sure, they were man-made, too. Isn't that what ultimately drives the monogamous relationship? I don't know if I can believe anyone that says they've never thought about being with another while seriously or casually involved with someone else. You can call it unfair. I call it realistic.
Thanks for the insight.
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