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Originally Posted by Freebase Dali
djchameleon - To me, you come off as some cheap knock-off Hallmark card Encyclopedia of shallow, meaningless anecdotes designed only for the purpose of validating your worth to the forum. I do think you mean well, and you're not self-centered, but you simply say thinks for the sake of saying them without any regard for substance. And that's not even the worst part. Your incessant need to assert this hyper-dominant 'male' stereotype about yourself speaks to a glaring inadequacy as a male that I believe you are terrified of people realizing. It might even stem from the fact that your voice sounds ANYTHING but 'dominant male', and you might have a long history of animosity towards that fact, which results in your need to compensate wherever possible. It's like the classic "little guy in a big truck" syndrome, or more classically, the Napoleon syndrome... only in a different context. I think in reality, you're about as manly as a female kitten, and I think you feel the same way... and in an internet forum, you have a chance to combat it with over-the-top references to what manly guys might identify with. The fact that you go over-the-top with this really confirms that.
With all that said, I don't dislike you. I push your buttons because they need to be pushed. The real you needs to come out of the closet (not a gay joke) and not worry about what everyone else will think. I think that if you were more true to yourself, then you'd have a lot more to offer.
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Swing and a miss! You are completely off base and people that have talked to me outside of MB knows me more than you do because you haven't. You are a select few other characters around MB believe everything I said 100% and don't get my brand of humor. Sure, it's not laughy ha ha type of humor but it's the same humor that I use on a daily basis in RL and everyone gets "it". I'm not going to change my style of humor for the slower people that aren't able to get it.
At the end of the day it's just your opinion and you will believe whatever you want to and I really don't care. I'm not going to lose sleep at night because of what others on an online forum think of me.