Scarlett O'Hara

I've been thinking this through and I truly believe women worry too much about what others think of them. And I mean this in all aspects of their life. Their job, their appearance, how they act in society and being attractive to the opposite sex. There is a huge element of rivalry between women because of their own insecurities wanting what another woman might have but they don't.

I have really learned to let go of all that. I personally don't get envious of other women, merely because I think I was blessed with the attributes I have. I can be an attention whore but generally I love being silly and make my friends and family laugh. If I acted the way I did around my parents and my friends I'd never get a boyfriend. That could indeed be my insecurities.

But in general I wanted to say, I have often embarrassed friends in the past for not being afraid of looking or speaking stupidly in public. I love doing ridiculous things to make strangers smile like for example I went through the centre of my old town once in car making a skeleton head talk to people walking around on the streets. My friends were mortified.

Guys: do you find women ashamed of being who they really want to be?

Girls: are you able to let go of what others think and stop being afraid to look stupid sometimes? Do you rival other women?

An example of this is when women look incredibly sexualised all the time in music videos or the average joe in a club. Is that all there is to you? We don't see another side of woman enough in society and the media. Apart from dumbass blondes, reality TV retards and unintelligent politicians like Sarah Palin.

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