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Originally Posted by Dirty
Definitely wrong here. Human relationships are a huge part of anyone's confidence and health. They are very important.
Or are you talking strictly about boyfriend/girlfriend relationships
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No, she is right. Co-dependency is horrible and I don't advocate it. It doesn't help your self esteem to have to rely on someone else to give you compliments. You need to love yourself before you can expect others to love you. Oh and btw. I took your name out of it Dirty. I will go through all the other posts and remove your name from them as well.
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Originally Posted by Plum
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- If you let someone walk all over you, you become part of the drama triangle. It means YOU are at fault as much as the other person. Maybe you need to look at yourself before you worry about getting with other people.
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Exactly. that's what beta males need to learn. To stop letting someone else walk over them and to take more pride in themselves. They should have more pride and self-worth to not let someone take advantage of them. That all comes in time while they build their self confidence though.
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Originally Posted by Plum
But I guess, you know, if you brahs want to attract bimbos just to ****, disregard that, after all, I'm a boring half of a boring couple.
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The point of this isn't just to attract bimbos it's to get comfortable with the idea of being able to talk to women period. Majority of women like guys that have some confidence but there is a thin line between having too much confidence and being an ego maniac which is a turn off to them mostly.